Don’t let your past define your future. Real talk right here. I was in a really toxic relationship with someone who made me feel less than human. He would put me down, scare me in dark ways, and was just a straight up narcissist. I am not perfect and don’t expect anyone else to be but that time in my life put me in a dark place. I thought about self-harm and ending my life to end the pain.I left him and from there my life went up. I could have let him drag me down deeper into a dark hole, but I rose. Never let others define who you are or what they think you should be.